MEN, SEX & THE BRILLIANT BODY

A radically different approach to men's sexuality, powered by THE body’S intelligence.

 
 

Curious about what makes you tick sexually? In this free workshop, you'll use Personal Geometry®, my pioneering body-mapping method, to reveal unconscious patterns shaping your sexual life. No talk therapy. No woo. Just a surprisingly logical and revealing way to investigate your sexuality. With just a few pieces of paper and your brilliant body, discover how quickly something you've never consciously recognized can become visible. Join us for this free, interactive exploration.

This isn't your typical men's group. Go deeper into your desires, pleasures, inhibitions, relationships, and sexual possibilities through an unconventional exploration of sexuality guided by a radical woman with more than four decades of experience working with bodies, psyches, and sexualities. Using Personal Geometry®, discover what your body's intelligence can reveal about who you are as a lover, and who you could become. Two levels of participation, including a small-group Intensive.


About Ali & Personal Geometry®

I'm Ali Mezey, a sexologist, master bodyworker, founder of Personal Geometry®, and host of The Brilliant Body Podcast.

I've spent decades working with people on sexuality, intimacy, relationships, and the challenges of being human. And one thing that increasingly fascinates me is how much of our sexual experience is shaped by patterns we may never have consciously recognized.

But what if your body could make those patterns visible and conscious in a matter of minutes?

That's what Personal Geometry® makes possible.

Explore upcoming workshops

 

Date & Time: Wednesday, Nov 25. 10am PST or sunday, december 13, 10am pst or wednesday, december 30, 10am pst
Where:
Online zoom (Cameras on)
Cost: Free

your Commitment: 75-minutes, A private space, zero interruptions, and your full, courageous presence.

Outcome: Discover a new way of understanding your body, challenge some of the assumptions you've been carrying, and get a first taste of what it means to recognise your body's intelligence.


The 8-week Exploration & Intensive workshops

WHAT WILL WE EXPLORE?

Each week brings a different dimension of your sexual world into focus:

  1. The Heart–Sexuality Split: The relationship between affection, intimacy, desire, and sexual excitement.

  2. The Man You're “Supposed” to Be: Masculinity, expectations, and the pressure to be a certain kind of sexual man.

  3. Your Penis Is Not Your Report Card: Erections, ejaculation, performance, and your relationship with your penis.

  4. Pleasure, Play, and Possibility: Spontaneity, experimentation, enjoyment, and what makes room for them.

  5. Your Private Sexual World: Fantasy, pornography, shame, secrecy, and curiosity.

  6. The Courage of Intimacy: Vulnerability, closeness, autonomy, and being seen and known.

  7. What Turns You On, and Why?: Your patterns of arousal, erotic preferences, and possibilities.

  8. Who and What Are You Committed To?: Integrating discoveries and exploring what you want to carry forward or change.

These themes provide our structure, while the questions and discoveries emerging from the group will also help shape our exploration.


 

Date & Time: Wednesday, Jan 6, 2027 · 10am PsT
Where:
Online zoom (Cameras on)
Cost: $147

your Commitment: 90 MINUTES WEEKLY FOR EIGHT WEEKS

Outcome: Develop greater self-trust, understand your body's patterns and intelligence, and learn to work with your body rather than against it.

A complete eight-week journey into your sexuality through guided Personal Geometry® mapping, personal discovery, and learning from other men. Explore at your own pace, with no obligation to share intimate details.


 

Date & Time: Wednesday, Jan 6, 2027 · 10am PT
Where:
Online zoom (Cameras on)
Cost: $497

your Commitment: 2.5 HOURS WEEKLY FOR EIGHT WEEKS

Outcome:Build a deeper, more personal relationship with your body's intelligence, uncover patterns that may have been holding you back, and develop greater clarity, confidence and trust in yourself.

Everything in The Exploration, plus eight additional hours in a small group, with substantially more personal guidance, individual exploration, and direct interaction with me. Your questions. Your maps. Your time in the spotlight, if you want it. LIMITED TO 10–12 MEN


Who are you as a lover, and who could you become?

Over eight weeks, you'll use Personal Geometry®, my pioneering body-mapping method, to investigate the unconscious patterns shaping your desires, pleasures, inhibitions, relationships, and sexual possibilities.

This isn't your typical men's group. We're approaching sexuality through the intelligence of the body, investigating familiar sexual questions from some decidedly unfamiliar angles. And your guide? A radical woman with more than four decades of personal and professional experience working with the complexities of bodies, psyches, and sexualities. Expect a different perspective!

Through Personal Geometry®, you'll explore how your sexuality is organized, what may be limiting or supporting your experience, and what becomes possible when previously unconscious patterns become visible and visceral.

This isn't talk therapy, and it isn't woo. Whether you've spent years talking about (or avoiding) your sexual challenges without getting very far, or you'd never set foot in a therapist's office, Personal Geometry® offers a different way in. It's a direct, logical, and remarkably efficient method of inquiry.

We'll combine guided spatial mapping, teaching, personal reflection, and opportunities to learn from the questions, perspectives, and discoveries of other men.

No locker-room bullshit. No need to impress anyone. No obligation to disclose intimate details of your sexual life.